Why do I want to talk but can t?
Selective mutism is a severe anxiety disorder where a person is unable to speak in certain social situations, such as with classmates at school or to relatives they do not see very often. It usually starts during childhood and, if left untreated, can persist into adulthood.
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Why do I want to talk but can t?
Selective mutism is a severe anxiety disorder where a person is unable to speak in certain social situations, such as with classmates at school or to relatives they do not see very often. It usually starts during childhood and, if left untreated, can persist into adulthood.

When you want to talk to someone but don’t know what to say?
So here’s a 5-step process to help you come up with the words you need when you don’t know what to say.
- Step 1: Don’t Fight Anxiety…
- Step 2: Change Your Perspective to Be More Realistic.
- Step 3: Start Being Observant.
- Step 4: Use Their Responses to Keep Things Going.
- Step 5: Share Some of Yourself.
- Take Action.
Why do I go through phases of not wanting to talk to anyone?
It might be related to stress, work, unhealthy habits, unhealthy eating. A person experiencing situational depression may be able to alleviate it by changing their situation. Solution: If you feel depressed, you should consider talking to your doctor or a therapist about it.
Why is it hard for me to talk about my feelings?
What to know about alexithymia. Alexithymia is when a person has difficulty identifying and expressing emotions. It is not a mental health disorder. People with alexithymia may have problems maintaining relationships and taking part in social situations.

How do you know if someone doesn’t want to talk to you?
The following types of responses can indicate the person is bored with the conversation or doesn’t want to talk to you:
- Using lazy responses like “oh really,” “you’re so right,” or “totally.”
- Mirroring the language you use such as “It’s really cold today” with “Yes, it is cold.”
- Ignoring questions or statements.
What to say to someone who stopped talking to you?
Instead, say something like: “I haven’t heard from you and want you to know whatever happened that I’m your friend and if you need me to listen, just let me know.” With this note, you’ll leave the ball in her court about how to proceed.
What happens to your voice when you stop talking?
Our voices naturally weaken as we age, Johnson explained, because the muscles in our throat and face are no different from all the other muscles in our body that naturally weaken and atrophy. This is partly why older people’s voices can sometimes sound breathier and weaker than they once did.